Day Trade with AI on House Money Q and A

Sep 26, 2025By Matthew Liang

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Reader Question:
“I’ve failed about ten prop firm evaluations, passed three, got funded, and still never made a cent. I’ve spent over $2,000 trying. What does this say about me and about prop firms? Are they a scam — or am I just not cut out for trading?”

 
Answer:
I’ll give it to you straight — because sugar-coating this industry is why most people stay stuck: if you’ve failed ten evaluations, passed three, and still can’t stay profitable, the problem isn’t the prop firm. It’s that you don’t yet have a real edge.

This is the hard truth that separates traders who make it from those who keep donating tuition to the market.

 
💸 Prop Firms Are a Business — and You’re the Product
Here’s what nobody on YouTube wants to say out loud: prop firms are not there to make you rich. They’re there to make money off the 90–95% of traders who never will be. The $100–$300 you spend per evaluation? That’s their business model.

They don’t need you to succeed. They need you to keep trying.

Think of it like a casino: most players lose, but they keep coming back, convinced they’re “one trade away” from the big score. Prop firms know this psychology better than you do. They profit from it — and they build their entire business around it.

But unlike a casino, they’re not cheating you. They’re just holding up a mirror. What you see in that reflection is the part most traders can’t face.

 
🪞 What Your Track Record Really Says
If you can’t make money trading a $150,000 funded account, that means capital was never the problem. The issue is upstream — your system, your discipline, or your emotional control.

If your edge isn’t real, bigger capital just makes you lose faster.
If your psychology isn’t stable, the pressure of a larger account will break you.
And if you can’t grow $5,000, you won’t grow $150,000 either.
Passing an evaluation proves nothing except that you can follow rules for a couple of weeks. Real trading is months and years of executing a repeatable edge without blowing yourself up. That’s the difference between a lucky pass and a professional trader.

 
🧠 Why Most Traders Fail (And Why It’s Not About Talent)
No validated edge. Most people aren’t trading — they’re gambling with technical indicators they don’t understand.
Emotional chaos. Fear, greed, and ego hijack their decisions. Revenge trades, early exits, FOMO entries — this is where accounts die.
Evaluation pressure. The “pass or fail” timer pushes traders into overtrading, oversizing, and chasing fast wins.
No structure. They lack defined risk parameters, journaling habits, or a daily plan — the basic scaffolding of a trading business.
Prop firms aren’t scamming you. They’re diagnosing you. They show you, with brutal honesty, whether your system and psychology are ready for capital. Most traders’ answer? Not yet.

 
🧭 What To Do Next (If You’re Serious)
If you still want this life — and I mean trading as a skill, not a lottery ticket — then stop measuring your worth by evaluation results. Do this instead:

✅ Win three months in a row in a simulator before risking another dollar. If you can’t do that, nothing changes when real money’s involved.
✅ Codify your edge. Backtest it. Journal it. Prove it in different markets and conditions.
✅ Automate where possible. Bots don’t panic, overtrade, or take revenge trades. Humans do.
✅ Respect prop capital. Treat every dollar like it belongs to your most demanding client — because it does.
The market doesn’t reward effort. It rewards consistency. If you haven’t built that yet, no funding, no prop firm, and no capital infusion will save you.

 
🧪 The Real Role of a Prop Firm
Think of a prop firm not as a shortcut to riches, but as a crucible. It will burn away your illusions. It will expose every weakness you try to hide. It will humble you — repeatedly — until you either walk away or evolve.

That’s not a scam. That’s training.

And when you do evolve — when your edge is real, your emotions are stable, and your process is bulletproof — that same prop firm becomes a force multiplier. At that point, it’s not a test anymore. It’s fuel.

 
🔥 Bottom line: If you’re losing at a prop firm, it’s not a verdict — it’s feedback. It’s telling you exactly where you’re not yet ready. Don’t take it personally. Take it seriously.

 
📘 Want to go deeper?
This is exactly the kind of mental, strategic, and structural reframe I explore in Day Trade with AI on House Money: The Seeker’s Secret to Financial Freedom — a field guide to surviving the prop firm gauntlet, building real edge, and turning trading from a hobby into a disciplined income engine.

👉 Read the book on Amazon  https://www.amazon.in/Day-Trade-House-Money-Financial-ebook/dp/B0FCQRJRYB

 
🏦 House Money Philosophy — The Final Shift
The real breakthrough comes when you stop trading like you’re chasing something and start trading like you’re protecting something. That’s the “house money” mindset: trade only with profits, structure your withdrawals monthly, and treat capital — especially prop capital — as sacred fuel for time, not toys for adrenaline. When you operate with that discipline, trading stops being a desperate sprint and becomes a patient craft. That shift alone is what turns the market from predator into partner — and that’s when prop firms go from bleeding you to backing you.